If you truly want to love your wife in a very unique way, take the time to provide the safety and security she seeks by providing for the family. That’s right become a provider. You definitely have a wife and possibly children and with that in mind there are several needs that need to be met. The primary one is showing that you live in a secure home, in a safe environment. Then taking care of all the financial obligations to manage the home. Once those needs are met, then you can begin to focus on wishes wants and desires. When needs and wants are met within a household everyone will feel safe and secure. And the love begins to grow and it insures the success of that relationship.